My life now

I'm obviously an author, life coach, course and content creator, but I'm also a happily married wife and mother, of the most gorgeous little one, living in our own little house in the New Forest.

It's honestly like living the life of my dreams, it's all I ever wanted and at one point thought I might never have; but it took me a long time to get here ~ by working on myself, by overcoming the challenges I now help others with, and working with the law of attraction.

So how did I get here?

Without giving you my entire life story, I hit rock bottom a few times and, one of these times, practically on a whim, I found myself a live in job in Thailand and left my western life behind. Over the next few years, somewhere between East and West, I ‘found myself’.

I didn’t know it at the time, but hitting rock bottom turned out to be the best thing that ever happened to me. It was the catalyst I needed to begin my journey, to gradually become who I was meant to be and live the life I was meant to live.

Life in the East

While living and working in Thailand I spent a lot of time alone, coming back to myself, but I also mixed with some incredible people, who encouraged and supported my spiritual and self development. I trained to be a Reiki Healer at the Usui Reiki Healing Centre, in Chiang Mai, I spent some time practicing meditation and mindfulness with the Buddhist Monks under the tutelage of Thich Nhat Hanh at Plum Village, in Khao Yai, and I learnt how to come back to myself with grounding yoga and meditation practices when I took myself to the Blooming Lotus Yoga & Meditation retreat, in Bali.

I thought I was done

After learning from all of this incredible wisdom, getting to know myself, and finding new ways to feel love, confidence and peace within, I thought I was done. I thought I knew it all. I thought there was nothing more for me to learn, and decided it was time to return to the UK, where I soon realised how wrong I was...

My Twin Flame Experience

Not long after, I began spiralling in my own twin flame journey, which was a rollercoaster of emotion, but taught me new levels of understanding ~ of myself, of other people, of love, of the universe, of the nature of things, and of the law of attraction.

I spent five years on that journey, and although, at times, it was incredibly difficult, and incredibly enlightening, it brought me to where I am today and the life I now live. It's a story I plan to share as a new book in the Kerry Explains series.

I was still learning

During that time I also learnt a deeper kind of meditation, called Transcendental Meditation, which I combined with Reiki and had a surreal out of body experience! And even though I was actually very skeptical to begin with, I 'treated myself' to a past life regression, I was introduced to the magic of crystals, I began to read oracle cards, and I was very pleasantly surprised by the effects of all three. I now have a huge collection of crystals and I've found my favourite deck of oracle cards that I always come back to.

Always learning and growing

Like all of us, I'm always learning and growing, tackling the life lessons that come up through my own experiences, facing my fears, and embracing my triggers to address deep-rooted issues.

Motherhood has quietened some of the spiritual pastimes I indulged in before, and I have found a balance between being present and enjoying daily life with my family, still believing in the magic of what I believe, and knowing that the spiritual tools I have in my toolkit are there for me when I need them.

My own recent challenges

I love learning and study whatever calls to me, indulging my curiosity by consuming self-help books and resources, most recently working through my own challenges with conscious parenting, breaking the cycle of generational trauma, and delving deeper into holding boundaries ~ obviously triggered by becoming a parent and wanting to be the best I can be for my family.

Although I've gone through very spiritually conscious periods in my life, even when I'm not feeling so deeply connected, my self development keeps growing. Sometimes a deep conversation, or a self-help book and a little journaling, feels just as profound. You never know what can cause you to have a life changing breakthrough!

Even though I now know what I know, and despite all of my experience, I am still surprised whenever my life levels up, or I wade deep through another layer of myself, and feel like I’ve had a new upgrade. It’s magical.