This was the biggest takeaway one reader took from my book 'Kerry Explains The Law of Attraction'...
I made this a full step in my 5 step process because THIS WAS HUGE FOR ME. It changed my Law of Attraction process from almost working to getting actual real life results!
Out of the following list of invisible things, which do you believe in and which do you KNOW to be factually real ~ Santa Claus, the Tooth Fairy, God, Gravity, Electricity, the Internet...
We don't see physical proof of any of them, but we wouldn't say we BELIEVE in electricity ~ as if our belief would make it real. We KNOW it's real. We don't tend to obsess over whether it's going to work one day and not the next, we simply accept that it's part of our reality and move on.
Apply the same logic to your dreams and manifestations. They do exist, you KNOW they exist, or you wouldn't be able to want them.
If someone else has what you want, that proves it's real, proves it's a thing you can have too. Accept that as part of...
#tbt the day I said goodbye to my car. I was sad to see her go, of course, but also grateful for what she represented. I actually manifested this car into my life.
The classic Audi TT had been my dream car since before I learnt to drive. When my car before her was beyond repair, I briefly wondered if the universe was making space in my life for an upgrade. Then I surrendered the thought, knowing it would turn up when it was meant to and, much to my surprise, I was driving this little beauty within a week.
I love driving and I loved driving this car, but when I moved to the bright city lights of London I used her less and less as I adventured across the city on the tube and train. So it was a relief to let go of the financial responsibility that comes with maintaining, insuring and taxing a car, not to mention the parking tickets and embraced a new kind of freedom.
Moving to London, practically overnight, was a huge leap forwards for me and making changes was inevitable. So I...
I'm living in an upgraded version of my life and sometimes I still want to pinch myself, still learning to accept that I deserve all that I have attracted towards me, still wrestling with the cliche 'too good to be true'. Based on experience and social conditioning, I have to stop myself asking 'what's the catch?'
I can see, looking back, that my previous challenges, blocks, and lessons happened for a reason, moving me in this direction towards upgrade after upgrade. I can also see that I played my own part in getting here, by doing the work of self-development. My biggest block was accepting that I am worthy of the upgrades.
There were dark times, and there will still be dips as well as peaks because its an ongoing journey of learning, but I know that it has all been for my highest good and will continue to be. It's hard to remind myself that the dips are temporary. They feel so permanent at the time, but they do pass. With a little conscious reflection I recognise them as mud...
You might have heard about vibrational frequencies, that blissed out happy people are vibrating on another level... they're vibing with happy vibes, right? But anyone can do that.
You don't have to get the ins and outs of quantum physics to understand that everything is made of teeny tiny atoms of energy. The basics of science teaches us that solids liquids and gases are just atoms vibrating at different frequencies... and that applies to everything, even waves of sound, even waves of emotion.
So if you choose to feel happy, if you flood yourself with the purest feeling of joy you can imagine, you're vibrational state will attract more of the same. By tuning in to the vibration you want to attract, you're allowing it to play through you, like a radio station.
Don't believe me? I'm more than happy to explain
The Law of Attraction is often thought of like making a wish and it magically, instantly coming true. It can be that simple once you've got the hang of it, but there's groundwork to be done before you reach that level.
Doing 'the work' is the best thing you can do for yourself, and we all have a unique combination of lessons to learn. Your work might include boosting your confidence and self-esteem, it might mean setting boundaries and resetting your priorities, you might just need a plan, you might have some spiritual exploration to undertake, some shadow work to do, and you might need to reparent your inner child.
Just know it's worth doing, and you deserve to give yourself some attention, because you are entitled to live the life you dream of living
That feeling of love comes from you. It's often a response to the people, an event, or the circumstances that surround you, a reaction based on 'this amazing thing happened, or omg I love that, or wow I love him, or that's so sweet, I feel so loved' but the source of the feeling is something magical happening on the inside.
The fact that you have access to that feeling AT ANY TIME is incredible, and you really do have the ability to sit quietly for a moment, close your eyes and just feel love well up inside you. If, when you first begin, you need to tap into a memory of a time when you felt that love before, do that, with practice you won't need to.
Feeling love as the source within yourself is so powerful. You can become an independent Law of Attraction wizard with this practice. It makes you magnetic to attracting hard evidence of love in your external life
The universe isn't biased, it doesn't judge, it just says yes. Whatever you repeatedly focus on is what you attract through the law of attraction, whether thats the good stuff or the bad stuff, focusing on it brings it to you.
So maybe it's time. Time to take ownership of the reality you create. Maybe you're ready to accept that you really do have that much power. You've been unknowingly working with the law of attraction your whole life. You have attracted it all to you, you have made these choices, sometimes consciously sometimes subconsciously.
If you're ready to step into this power you have, what are you going to do with it? How big are your dreams? How far do you want to go? Are you ready to do what it takes to have what you want?
Spiderman's uncle Ben was a wise man ~ 'With great power comes great responsibility.' You can't have one without the other. It's up to you to own that
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The most important thing you can do for yourself and your quality of life is to accept that you are worthy, that you deserve everything you dream about. Until then, you'll subconsciously stop yourself from having it.
You'll self-sabotage yourself. You'll convince yourself you're not good enough, that the timing isn't right, and when it doesn't materialise you'll even tell yourself you 'didn't want it anyway'
This is why the law of attraction doesn't SEEM to work for so many people, because they haven't done the work on their self-worth, they haven't stepped into the power of knowing they deserve what they want.
Are you ready to raise your worth?
THIS WAS HUGE FOR ME. Ignore that bloody song and do stop believing. Stop believing and start KNOWING.
Out of the following list of invisible things, which do you believe in and which do you KNOW to be factually real ~ Santa Claus, the Tooth Fairy, God, Gravity, Electricity, the Internet... We don't tend to see any physical proof of them, yet we wouldn't claim to believe in electricity as if our belief would make it real. We simply KNOW it is. We accept that reality and move on. Apply the same logic to your dreams and manifestations. They do exist, you know they exist.
There's a difference in how you FEEL about what you believe and what you know, which breaks down to a difference in your vibrational state. That's the key to the science behind the law of attraction. KNOW what you want exists, KNOW that it is out there, and KNOW that it is simply waiting for you to find it. I have the map
We all wish for a whole list of things, we wish for a life upgrade, we wish to reach the next level, we wish to achieve our goals and ambitions... but what if you were suddenly handed everything you wish for in the next moment? Are you really ready for all your dreams to come true?
If not, why not? What would make you ready, what would prepare you for that day, what would make you believe you deserve that moment to happen?
Until you do the work to get you to that state of feeling ready, you're holding your dreams back from yourself at arms length, you're resisting them. I can help you there